You, Your smile and Your choice to love

 

Love is because of life or Life is because of Love?

What is life? If not love?

Why do we love? Can we live without it? Is loving ourselves not enough? Is one-sided love enough? Why do we crave love? Is it worth it? Do I deserve it?  Does love actually fades?

Everywhere we go every person we talk to has different answers for what is love. No one has a common perspective of love, but still, we end up finding our people somehow. Since you stepped into this world, different kind of love has shaped you to be what you are.

Now can a materialistic love shape you as a person? Even if it does and makes you happy you are called selfish and ungrateful. When it gets too much out of hand it becomes a problem like any other kind of love.

Like in the movie "confessions of a shopaholic".  Her love for materialistic things is a threat to her career, romantic love angle and her overall future. Why? Because she overdid her love for shopping.

But the question here is, should she stop having that kind of love towards shopping or should she be more responsible because she LOVES shopping.

This is how human to human love is, very similar. You don't stop loving a person when a crisis occurs, you deal with crisis together because you LOVE each other. (dealing totally depends on the type of crisis to be honest).

But if the crisis can't be resolved, you still don't stop loving. It is not the fault of love. Instead, you find someone, keeping in mind the things you have dealt with, and making sure the person you choose keeps you sane and with LOVE apart from the crisis that still happen, because they will always happen.

It is all about choosing. 

Love is about choosing, Love is about staying, Love is about habit, Love is about yourself, Love is about everything that makes a curve on your lips that stretches upwards. Your Love is yours, no matter a person or a thing. Things or people you love is what makes you… YOU.

 

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