Cloud9 and reality

  Love is because of life or Life is because of Love? What is life? If not love? Why do we love? Can we live without it? Is loving ourselves not enough? Is one-sided love enough? Why do we crave love? Is it worth it? Do I deserve it?   Does love actually fades? Everywhere we go every person we talk to has different answers for what is love. No one has a common perspective of love, but still, we end up finding our people somehow. Since you stepped into this world, different kind of love has shaped you to be what you are. Now can a materialistic love shape you as a person? Even if it does and makes you happy you are called selfish and ungrateful. When it gets too much out of hand it becomes a problem like any other kind of love. Like in the movie "confessions of a shopaholic" .   Her love for materialistic things is a threat to her career, romantic love angle and her overall future. Why? Because she overdid her love for shopping. But the question here is, shoul...

Emotional Maturity When we talk about being mature, it is being fully grown and a developed human. When we talk about being mature, we talk about, taking the high road, being understanding, being productive, knowing your goals and working towards it, knowing your relationship with someone and working towards it, doing important work you need to finish rather than sitting around doing nothing. I was taught that being mature is to not be irrational, figuring things out yourself, taking right decisions at right places, not to cry, not to look sad, not to say your problems out loud, I was taught that if I got stuck some where I would be stuck there always, I was called immature always just because I did not want everything to be done formally, I was called immature when I kept my self-respect above an elder's respect. I was called immature for crying at small things and also the things that shattered me from inside. Because that’s what this society has made up the definition of being m...